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iConferencing Synnd Review - An Easy Way To Make Your Content Go VIral Working Online Networking Latest articles from iConferencing Synnd Review - An Easy Way To Make Your Content Go VIral Working Online Networking (http://www.iconferencing.co.uk) http://www.iconferencing.co.uk 2012-05-23T11:58:36+01:00 text/html 2008-01-25T10:03:59+01:00 http://www.iconferencing.co.uk Brought to you by Peter Murphy, author ofHow To Communicate With UnstoppableConfidence in 20 Days or Lesshttp://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.comWelcome to a special new report...&nbsp;10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication ConfidenceIntroduction:&nbsp;Would you like to discover why some people seem to easily andeffortlessly start great conversations with anyone they meet?While you struggle and wonder what you're doing wrong...Although it can seem like a complete mystery until someone revealsthe secret to you. Feeling shy, lacking confidence and getting stuckfor words need not be the way you spend the rest of your life.The problem is you have been getting bad advice - from peoplewho don't understand what its like for you to feel self- conscious. Andunable to express yourself as well as you know you can in day to daylife. Even though you do so well with your closest friends.Read on to discover the answers...Having superior conversation skills and great people skills is a matterof strategy. These abilities are not reserved exclusively for somelucky elite group of people.I urge you to read and use the insights I share in this report and returnoften to this report to review the material.When I set out on this journey you now find yourself on I found itdifficult to meet new people. I was often shy when I desperatelywanted to speak up.I lacked confidence in myself even though I knew I had a lot to offer.My day-to-day life was dominated by barriers to what I could do,would do and felt safe doing.If you ever feel unsure of yourself with other people, stuck forsomething to say and tense for no good reason then you know what Iam talking about.Let me tell you now. There is a better way! Devote yourself to learningeffective communication strategies and commit to mastering themand your life will change beyond all recognition.I am the same person I was when I felt stuck because of shyness. Thedifference now is that I can instantly feel confident with peoplewhenever I choose to. I no longer get tongue tied when meeting newpeople. Making conversation is easy for me now and it can be foryou too.You can do the same. All you need to do is learn advancedcommunication skills strategies that actually work.Little by little you can become even better than you expect inall your dealings with other people.10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication ConfidenceNow lets cover the steps to developing superior communication skillsthat causes people to respond positively to your ideas andrequests.Step 1 - State ManagementEvery successful man and woman deals effectively with the constantpressure and demands of modern life. You need to learn to do thesame.If you don't you will fail to communicate at your best when it is mostimportant that you do so.One of my millionaire mentors was telling me recently how much heloves to solve problems. And he was smiling and excited abouthaving more problems to look forward to!This kind of attitude allows you to approach life in a whole new way. Itmeans that you feel positive and energetic when the pressure is on.Consequently you will be able to express yourself well even in theface of stressful situations.And just as importantly, it means that you feel good when youcommunicate so that you come across as a capable and confidentperson. And feeling good makes it so much easier to make greatconversation.Think of people who have charisma...Maybe your favorite actor or even someone in your office. Do theyexude stress and worry?Of course not!They have charisma partly because they feel relaxed and in charge oftheir circumstances.Make of point of managing your attitude and your emotions. Yourability to express yourself in a charming way will soar.Step 2 - CongruenceA second key factor in expressing yourself clearly when makingconversation is the ability to have congruence in all that you do.What do I mean by congruence?I mean that who you are, what you do and how you communicate mustall be in alignment.Charismatic people intuitively know this. Think of a charismaticbusiness leader like Steve Jobs of Apple Computers. He lovesdeveloping new technologies, it excites him and it's what he wants todo. It's part of who he is.And when he speaks he is talking about what he loves with a sincerepassion. He doesn't need to pretend to be excited about his workand what Apple is producing. He is excited!In contrast think of someone you know who is doing a job he doesn'treally want to do. When he tries to be enthusiastic about his work itseems false. Because it is.To communicate with more impact you must be congruent. Make apoint of always doing what you say you will. And find ways of aligningwhat you want most in life with the work you do.For example if high standards are important to you apply thisprinciple to all your tasks, even to those you don't want to do. Little bylittle you will become more congruent in your work as well as in yourhome life..This will cause you to be fully present when you deal with coworkersand family. And when you speak you will have more credibility andimpact.Step 3 - High Self Esteem and that Charismatic GlowI have never known a charismatic person who did not feel good abouthimself and the role he performed in life. People who approve ofthemselves and who have high self-esteem take good care ofthemselves and the needs of the people in their environment.They actively encourage people to pay attention when they speak.How? Simply by the way they exude positive feelings aboutthemselves and others.The opposite is also true.A senior manager who does not feel good about himself is incapableof treating his staff as well as they deserve. He is likely to be harshwhen he needs to be more considerate and likely to be unreasonablewhen he needs to listen more.He is actively encouraging people to avoid him.However when you do have high self esteem your friends and familywill be more responsive to what you say because your non verbalcommunication will be more alive and more compelling.Make a point of appreciating yourself for you are and not just for whatyou can do. Be willing to accept praise from your peers for yourcontribution at work and be kinder to yourself when things do not workout.Think about the way you treat your best friend. Do you treat yourselfas well? Probably not! Approve of yourself more and you will exudean aura of positive energy that will attract people to you.You will then have more charisma and more confidence to say whatyou really think when you make conversation!Step 4 - Energize YourselfConfident communication and energy feed off each other. It takesenergy to have an impact on other people and it takes energy to becharismatic.And when you exude charm and confidence you unleash the energy inthose who are listening to you. They feel charged up and ready totake action because of the effect your words have on them.Your goal then is not just to speak better and listen more. You need tomake a point of having more energy. Find out how to eat in a way thatgives your body energy instead of tiring you.Learn to meditate to let go of the daily stress of life and take exerciseyou enjoy that makes you stronger.Before long you will dominate the afternoon meetings because youwill be bouncing with energy while everyone else is struggling to stayawake!After work you will have more energy for socializing and meeting newpeople - even making small talk will seem easier when you feelcharged up.Remember your ability to display superior communication skills islimited without the energy to fuel it.Step 5 - The Flexibility to SucceedThe leader that exudes confidence does so because she is flexible inhow she communicates.She understands that different people respond differently to the samewords and that it is imperative that she understands this and adaptsher approach to suit who she is talking to.One size does not fit all!Some people like to hear the message quickly while some need itexplained slowly. Others want the big picture only but theircolleagues get confused unless they get all the details up front.One of the most successful people I know is a master ofcommunication flexibility.How does he do it?The secret is to be a great observer! Watch and listen very carefullyto other people when they speak to you. They will invariably talk in theway they like to be spoken to.If someone speaks slowly and explains his points with real lifeexamples then you need to speak his language when it is your turn tospeak. Speak quickly and in conceptual terms and you will have nocharisma as far as he is concerned.Step 6 - Stretch to GrowAnother trait I have observed through observing highly successfulindividuals is the attitude of always growing. These giftedcommunicators learned this craft by persisting and continuingto learn from every experience.After a meeting these people typically ask themselves how they couldhave performed even better. And they stretch themselves everyday todo just a little better than the day before.Make a list of those situations in your life where you find it difficult tocommunicate at your best. Pick one to work on.Now brainstorm:What is holding you back?What skills do you need to learn?Who can I learn from?Then act on the possible solutions and keep adjusting your approachuntil you achieve your goal of communicating with charisma in thesesituations.Adopt this attitude of stretching and improving even a little each dayand before long you will be a masterful communicator.Step 7 - Join The Top 3% of HumanityIt's shocking when you learn the difference between those who getwhat they want in life and everyone else.There is a relatively small group of people who seem to have all theluck. They drive luxury cars, live in huge homes, have greatrelationships and succeed at virtually everything they do.How do they do it?Well it's not because of luck unless you believe that luck is due topreparation and an eye for spotting and seizing opportunities.The top 3% of humanity commit to self-development. They invest inbooks, courses and seminars to develop their skills and abilities.They then go one step further and apply what they learn.Although it sounds crazy most people do not apply what they learnand not surprisingly most people live unsatisfying lives.Finally, the top 3% don't waste time. They use the same 24 hours youhave each day to get things done. They don't waste hours watchingTV.These people are more likely to be producing TV entertainment orselling their products on TV than to be sitting at home vegetating infront of the box in the corner.You want superior communication skills? Are you prepared to dowhat the top 3% do?When I first learned the powerful communication skills I now use dailyI was impressed by the material I was absorbing in seminars.So was every one else! What made me different was the fact thatafter a long seminar I would spend the evening going over my notesand studying the material.I then spent at least one hour each day using my new skills until I hadmastered the material. My communication skills grew very quicklyand my confidence soared. I found it much, much easier to makeconversation even when meeting new people. I doubled my salary ina matter of months.You can develop exceptional people skills and enjoy feeling deeplyappreciated and respected by others. Are you prepared to work at it?The choice is yours!Step 8 - Beyond Wanting ApprovalWhat is the source of that charismatic glow that some people have?Why does it radiate so strongly?When you do not want or need the approval of the people you aretalking to your entire communication takes on a different and moreenergetic quality. And that's the secret!Let go of wanting the approval of other people and ironically you willtend to get that very approval.Why is this?Quite simply people tend to take things at face value. If you have aconviction that you are correct about something others will assumeyou are right unless additional information proves otherwise. Thesame applies to approval.If you do not need approval you do not give off the feeling that youlack approval. This encourages your listener to follow your lead andbelieve that you ought to be approved of.On the other hand when someone desperately needs your approvalyou can sense their neediness and see the craving in their eyes. Thiswanting approval prevents the person from having confidence.A sound strange doesn't it?Think of a time when you were fired up about an idea and you spokewith real conviction and passion about it. Think of a time when youdid this with real confidence.In that moment isn't it true that getting people to agree with you didnot matter that much?Unknowingly you had stumbled onto a secret to charisma. The onlychallenge is that you don't know how to get back into this statewhenever you want to.Step 9 - Be At Your Persuasive BestCharisma is that aura that some people have that makes youreceptive to what they say. In other words they have a persuasivecharm that causes people to take action based on what they suggest.Would like to be more persuasive? Would it help you to enlist the helpof your coworkers when you need to get things done? Do you wantyour family to pay more attention to your needs?The best communicators in the workplace do not rely solely on theirposition to get people to take action. They understand the importanceof mastering persuasion skills to create an environment where staffwillingly work hard to achieve results.How can you become persuasive today?Pick a topic you will be discussing in an upcoming meeting. Next,pick holes in your argument and leave no stone unturned in looking todestroy your position.Now that you have a big list of potential objections to your messagebrainstorm at least three answers to each objection.Once you have done this it is time to mentally rehearse how you willrespond to these objections in the actual meeting. In your imaginationhear someone running through these objections one at a time.For each objection hear yourself confidently and congruentlyresponding. Reply with the three answers you prepared for eachobjection.Why?To cover all angles and to build an inner confidence that only comesfrom thorough preparation. When you have a great answer to everylikely objection you will be ready to deliver a very compellingmessage.You can apply the same principles to your family life when you wantothers to do more of their share of chores!Step 10 - Focus is the Fuel of Communication ConfidenceTo talk with confidence you absolutely must remain focused on yourgoals despite any problems you currently face. You cannot afford toworry about other things when you are talking. If you let your mindwander you will dilute the impact of your words.You need millionaire focus!Let me explain with this example based on a true story..Barry was on the phone in his office, speaking with confidence,energy and passion.In his office were a number of removal men working quickly movingfurniture out the door to the van parked outside. Before long the officewas bare except for some old files, a cracked picture frame and aparched plant.Just then a tall man in a dark suit entered the building with a swagger.He found Barry still on the phone, standing in a corner of the emptyoffice. His voice echoed around the empty room as he finished hisconversation and hung up and placed the phone back on the floor.Barry reached into his pocket to find his key ring, he selected the carkey and reluctantly handed it over. The man in the suit grabbed itbefore walking outside and driving off at high speed in the luxury car.John walked in to see Barry just as all of this was happening. He wassurprised at how relaxed and confident Barry was given thecircumstances.You see, Barry had just lost his business and the removal men hadarrived to repossess his furniture while the car leasing company hadtaken back the Rolls Royce because the payments had fallen intoarrears.John was here for the same reason - to collect an unpaid debt.Although it was clear now that there was little chance of getting anymoney. So John and Barry did a deal. If Barry would teach him howhe could be so cool in the face of pressure than the debt would beregarded as paid.This is what Barry said to him:The big secret in life is to train your mind to think only aboutwhat you want to happen and to keep your thoughts off ofwhat you do not want.Despite the fact that I have just lost my business, my car, andmy office I just got off the phone, before it gets disconnected,after negotiating what could be one of my biggest deals ever.Always keep your mind picturing what you really want andTHINK ABOUT WHERE YOU WANT TO BE and not where youare. Stress is what happens when you put your attention onthe wrong things*And now over to you. Most people live life in a trance without noticingthe thoughts that are flying around inside their heads all day long.Spend more time each day spotting what you think about, you willlikely find that you often run through all the things that could go wrongas well as seeing situations working out only moderately well.Next, review a recent event where the pressure was on and you froze.How did you manage to put yourself in such an unresourceful state?What thoughts were going through your mind?More than likely you created big pictures in your mind of things goingwrong.Get into the habit of expecting things to work out and you will findyourself picturing life running more smoothly. You will then feel moreconfident, people will respond to you differently and you will get betterresults. Before long you will see that it is a self-fulfilling prophecy.Decide who you want to talk to, be clear about the purpose of yourcommunication and hold that outcome in mind. When you have aclear sense of direction it will guide you when you make conversation.All great communicators have an all-consuming passion that drivesthem. It energizes them and this contributes to the glow that makesthem seem so alive and dynamic. Focus is essential if you are toexude a confidence that positively influences other people.You can join them when you start applying the insights in this report.Start with the 10 principles in this document and notice how quicklyand easily you transform your ability to make great conversation -even when dealing with people who used to make you feelintimidated and unsure of what to say.This report was brought to you by Peter MurphyPeter Murphy is a peak performance expert. 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